One thing we are dealing with now is an imbalance in our relationship. I am sure it happens often when one spouse makes a lot of mistakes and the other not so much. Since I am the confessed screw up my wife has become a little self-righteous. It is not a good place to be and anyone who has ever experienced this understands where I am coming from. I feel diminished. It is one of the things that keeps me thinking about getting out. Why do I want to stay where I always feel like the bad guy? Does the future hold anything but this? I want to be in a relationship where I feel equal value. Maybe I am just kidding myself and relationships will always have this imbalance with one person always feeling less than their spouse. What do you think?