Anyone who has ever been a relationship that has started to tank has probably experienced the rewriting of relationship history. People who want out will often see the relationship history through dark glasses. I am experiencing that currently although I don’t think my wife wants out. It is just that I have done some things wrong and know she wants to believe that I have always been that way. I should be more patient with her but I pushed back. I couldn’t just sit here and let her denigrate all our past history. That was a mistake. I should have just let it go. She completely blew up and said I should have just sat on it and give her a chance to heal. She is right.