Being too available in a relationship is not a good thing.  A relationship with some people is a fine line–not available enough and the relationship can dissipate, too available and the other person can feel claustrophobic.  My fear has always been that if I am not available enough we will end up with completely separate lives.  I have a very hard time imagining that my wife would even care that I was not around.  But I have no choice.  I have to be brave and take the chance.  I cannot snuff out my marriage because of my insecurities.


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