The past 2 years have been very hard for my wife and I. I woke up one day and realized that things were not what I wanted them to be. I felt my wife did not even like me. So I spent the next 2 years complaining to her about what was wrong and how she was doing things wrong. Well, what happened was I realized that I was the cause of most of the problems. If you are in a relationship and things are not like you want them look to yourself first. So here I am working on changing a lot about myself. I never thought I could change but at this point I have no choice.