Hello World

I am creating this blog as documentation of my journey–from a needy husband to confident husband.  I have been in the midst of a midlife crisis these past two years and I have had to face the facts–that I am a needy husband and have a lot of changes to make.  I have been studying and learning as much as I can about marriage, women, and human nature in general to try to understand where I have gone wrong and what I can do to improve myself and my marriage.  I will be publishing my thoughts on my state, reviews of marriage books and self-improvement, and links of interest.  I hope to one day look back on this blog and see how I went from a needy husband to self-fullfilled one.


About me —  I am a Christian and as such this blog will have a Christian bent.  I have a very good job and I am very thankful for it.  I have been married for over 20 years to a great woman.  We have 3 great kids together.  I do not drink, smoke, or do drugs.  My weakness has always been sex.  I used to use porn frequently but have turned the corner on that though it is still a temptation and will always be.  I am a very sensitive man and quite insecure.  I believe that sensitivity is inherited as I see my son is the same way.  I have been a little controlling, jealous, possessive in my relationship with my wife.  I pray this blog will be the story of my recovery. 


One thought on “Hello World

  1. Okay I have read all your posts, and I’ve enjoyed every single one, i wish you goodluck, but with your changes made I hope she changes her feelings of affection, as it is a relationship, its a two way street with the same amount of traffic on both sides. But yes goodluck 🙂

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